It is too easy to forget that footballers are human beings. Many of us chatter on about how we're jealous of their lifestyles, jobs and of course money. For the majority of fans growing up, the unattainable prospect of being paid to play football seems like a dream. However, for those participating in the sport, it's not all roses.
Steven Caulker, former Liverpool and Tottenham defender, is one of many who has felt the stresses of pursuing a career as a footballer. Speaking to the Guardian in a powerful interview
Football is still adapting to the reality of mental illness. Earlier last month, Everton winger Aaron Lennon was detained under the Mental Health Act amid concerns for his welfare - with the English winger undergoing treatment for a stress related illness.
Massive, MASSIVE respect for Steven Caulker for speaking out about his troubles with mental health, something that needs to be heard. pic.twitter.com/jDi5m3bMOD— Cardiff City Stats (@CCFCStats) June 29, 2017
Caulker revealed that he turned to gambling and drinking to numb the pain and take the immense pressure of football away.
"My way of dealing with it [pressure], even in the early stages of my career, was gambling. I’m an addict. I’m addicted to winning, which people say is a positive in football but certainly not when it extends to gambling.
"I was gambling heavily when I went back to Tottenham, staying up to crazy hours of the night in casinos. Being dropped rattled me even more because football was what I had relied on to make me feel better. So then the gambling was every single day.
"The pain of losing all my money, combined with the shame and guilt, ate away at me. So I’d drink myself into oblivion so I wouldn’t have to feel anything. I was numb but I was out of control.”
Caulker also revealed the decision to leave Spurs put him in an even worse state, as when his QPR side were thrashed by his former club, the regrets ate away at him.
“I ended up at QPR that summer, 2014, trying to hold it together, but the trigger there came in the second game when we were thrashed 4-0 at Tottenham.
"I’d made a big mistake leaving Spurs. I should have stayed and sorted myself out. I wanted the ground to swallow me up. It just pounded in my head: regret, regret, regret. From that moment I was gone, even if I never wanted to accept it, and everything just escalated. I’d go for days without sleeping. I don’t know how I survived it. That year was an absolute nightmare."
A very powerful piece. Wish Steven Caulker well. https://t.co/rmvNNR9RBD— Gary Lineker (@GaryLineker) June 29, 2017
However, Caulker now believes he is in a much better state mentally, and he is aiming to prove he is capable of reaching his potential.
"Now I feel good mentally and I want the chance to show people, including my son, what I am truly capable of. Wherever the opportunity arises, I’m just thankful still to be alive.”